Be Girlie and step out in style! Our new arrivals are on point!
Whats that event? Nail it from our wide range of classy and super chic dresses from great brands like Tommy Hilfiger, Next, Calvin Klein, Neon Rose, Scarlett, M & S, Nina Leonard, R and M Richards etc!
Dresses , the best way a real regal lady is defined! *winks*
Yippeee! They are here!….Tops for different events and moods!..sleeveless, long and short sleeves, off-the-shouders, tie-sleeves, serious, casuals, e.t.c. from great labels like Bon Marche, River Island, Roca wear, Dorothy Perkins , George etc.
Now your wardrobe’s got great and exciting company… ‘hawt tops’! *winks* Have fun and shop all you can @ fantastic prices!
Oh yeah! Blessed be God for life and we truly have to live it to the full. No short circuits! How? I have found out truly that the only true way is just to truly live in God! He just takes care of me daily like a newborn baby! Glory to His name forever ! Yeah, that’s how I live folks! It makes living simple and beautiful!
I remember having given birth to three amazing kids.The experiences of those times never left me. At those times, no life of my own, it was nursing and feeding baby for twenty four hours a day non-stop , even when you don’t feel like and tired! Just for love for a baby that could not help himself/herself, you just have to nurse and care! No wonder the scripture says , ‘Can a mother forget her suckling child..’? NEVER! That’s how we are in God’s hands!…Even if she does, God will never forget you’!
Don’t get me wrong. Challenges will sure come, roses may have thorns but He will ALWAYS make a way! He’s the best you can ever ask for. Come to think of it, He has given us all we need in life and gave Himself for us …so much love! Amazing!!! So there is no reason you should live less. For instance, in the scriptures, He told us how He feeds and clothes the birds of the air,; makes plenty even in scarcity or famine; God of all flesh and nothing too hard for Him…and so on! Oh hallelujah!!!
Tell me, isn’t that so unfair to Him, to live your life worrying, dejected, bitter, hating, unkind, depressed etc. after having done so much for you?
Determine in your heart today to live the life God has created for you! Hand over your life to Him today and LIVE THE REAL LIFE!
Heads Up Everyone! The DICE is thrown!!!…SUITS @ Jembel!
Now the dice is thrown and you make your pick!…Yea a whole lot of stuff carefully selected and great enough to sensitize your taste buds! *winks* We got Tahari, Next, H & M, Calvin Klein , Nine west etc. for that woman of class, yet at best prices! Here you go and get PWEETTY! All suits and more @ jembel.com/shop/shop-bottoms
Someone once asked me this question; Who’s your helper? Then it dawned on me really that God is our helper! The Bible calls Him our ever present help! Glorryyy! He’s the “same God” yesterday , today and forever! Mind blowing testimonies follow this truth!
Define today who your helper is!… Not you, not anyone but God! Absolutely no man but God!! God definitely can use any man to help you but you got to define who God is to you! That way, you will love Him selflessly!
He’s the greatest helper we can ever have. Make Him your helper today even at work, any field of endeavour and your life generally, and you will prosper.
Blessed is he that puts his trust in God! He’s the same God forever! and will do what He has promised. Have a pweetty week!
Hey U, how do you look today? I just can’t stop asking. You know why of course?….Every woman is pweetty , especially @ Jembel! *winks* Ask around. No woman comes to us and leaves the same! Today we will be sharing on some essential extras, that boost your style, causing a total lift!
Some essentials we will discuss here are: handbag, perfect hair style/ weaves, jacket/cardigan, and your smile of course! *winks* Have a look at our Diva!
Every lady MUST have a handbag for starters! Yes most people opt for black first if asked to choose. Well that s fine, but still regular. Red is a MUST too any day! It has a way of brightening up your total outlook.
Second point – The hair she’s also wearing, is appropriate for her face . Bangs / fringe actually give /gives a gorgeous look!
Thirdly – Did you also notice the jacket that hung loosely on her body? That’s a plus too. Jackets always add colour .Try cardigans too . They do the work as well. Have one or two in your wardrobe; they come in handy.
Fourthly- A pair of sunglasses. I will say yes to it if you don’t mind. At least one! See what it did to our Diva’s look below!
Finally- Don’t forget to always wear a smile! Smile is fashionable.
Good morning Pweetty! Are you excited this morning? Well I am SUPER EXCITED because God has made life so beautiful! Yes! Yes!!.. a million times!!!
You know, how you see your life matters a lot. God has made our lives so beautiful. Don’t complicate it with wrong thoughts or imaginations. Is it a challenge or trial? Forget it, and ignore! Dwell on what matters,…God’s word, declare it and before long,the real thing will show up! ( Col.3 vs 2)
Look unto God. Channel your energy that way. Remember David in the scriptures, became so famous because of the Goliath he faced! Much may not have been heard about him if no Goliath showed up in his life. Wow, awesome! So challenges come to make us shine so brightly!
Be conscious of the truth;God’s word. That is final and that is what matters. Be full of praise , you have all things when he sent Jesus Christ to die for you. Life is beautiful! He has given us all things. ( Eph 1 vs 3)
A shift from the usual? Yes! What do you think? Lets talk about colours and effects! Yea, I just love women looking pweetty!
Our Diva rocked her outfit well! With just her white shirt, belt and a pair of Limelight green pointies from Jembel, she slayed the outfit!
#Point 1- The white shirt neatly tucked into her well fitted pair of Jeans pants, gave it a serious look , yet classy. Go for well fitted pants..your size! Remember, every woman is pweetty!.. All you need is ”right clothes, at the right time and in your right size”! Don’t MANAGE anybody else’s size! ALWAYS ROCK YOUR SIZE!
#Pont 2 – It didn’t stop there. Throw in more colours one or two like green will do, and see what you have! Have a look!
She blended with her green cardigan and pair of green shoes! Oh Wow! ..simple clothes, achieved so much! Truly a shift from the usual! …and very importantly your hair, wear it well.
Try rocking your white top and coloured pants this way. Don’t stop at the colours mentioned. Try different ones and see!
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I just saw this photo and couldn’t let go! Its a wow for me! What do you think? So so inspiring!!
Believe me, everything you will ever create physically, is all in ur mind!…The kind of life you want, heights to attain, houses to build or live in, kind of car you want to drive, the designer you want to be, what your today and tomorrow will be etc. They are all in your mind! What do you make out of the resources around you, your time, imagination, trials, skills etc? Always inspire yourself.
Those kids in the photo made an imaginary bike and having a ball! To them, that’s fulfilling! hahaha! Come on, inspire yourself!
Picture it in your mind , hit the road and birth it! No one can stop you but you! Enjoy your life and see you at the top!
You truly need to introduce warm colours in your wardrobe! Yellow is one of such colours that shouldn’t be found wanting in your wardrobe ladies! You are sure gonna slay any outfit in yellow and pull stunts! Trust me. Have a look!
What do you think? Hmmmmmn, awesome if you ask me! Try yellow and black shoes, gold accessories like your bangles, neck piece, handbags and you are still trendy! Whites also nail yellow anyday! You can throw one or two white stuff in, instead of gold or black. Key word is explore.
Our Diva rocked her glamorous yellow Fendi- design dress by New Look ( from Jembel), with a pair of black Rock Republic shoes from Jembel as well, and a black -white Chanel handbag and i think SHE SLAYED THE OUTFIT! She rocked a YELLOW AND BLACK POWER! You can also have a royal blue , white, or teal and black power with our super glamorous fendi-design dress! Shop from jembel.com/shop/shop-dress
For extras, wear a hair style that fits your face…Our advice: The simpler the better!
You need help with matching your outfit and accessorizing? Not to worry, Jembel is close by at no extra cost!
”Seest thou a man diligent in his business? He shall stand before kings; he shall not stand before mean men” (Prov 22 vs 29)
Oh yes! You desire to stand before kings and not obscure men? Be and keep being diligent! Don’t be discouraged; don’t give up, for in due season you shall reap!
Be careful of dream killers along the way though. You will sure meet all kinds of people and forces but hold on tight to what God showed you. Don’t be afraid! No force can withstand God! He is the highest and greatest force ever! God has given you all the grace you need to abound in every good work.
Have a pweetty week!
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Dressing corporate doesn’t have anything to do with boring clothes or looks! Yes those times are gone! Be seen as a corporate 21st century woman. Have a look at our Diva!
She got spotted in Calvin Klein’s super glam dress , boosted with gorgeous platform sandals by Faith, all stocked by Jembel!
Tell me how on earth the office and boardroom won’t stand stil!! Now, you are next! Let’s dress you up and get jembelized from head to toe too! For more glam corporate dresses and shoes, see links below:
If there’s anything to do, the time is now. Set targets, – definite targets and move with your targets. Nothing is unachievable if you set your mind to it whether good or bad but choose good.
Have a sense of purpose and define your targets.Its only the things you expect that arrive. What are your expectations ? Trust God. Definitions and expectations work hand in hand. So don’t lose sight of the first things!
Have a p-w-e-e-t-t-y week!
#Weaves/Hair by Jembel
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#celebrateGo on celebrate the Lord’s glory, U! He’s faithful and ‘guuud’! Ohhh! No wonder the Bible says that, He has given us all that pertain to life and godliness! Phew!!!!
Gloryyy! He loves U so much and His love for U is unfathomable, unconditional, pure, genuine and eternal!
You are His glory, His pride..so celebrate! The first part of the year was a BANG!; second half is gonna be DA BOMB! Hahaha! Now you’ ve got to believe it! I am waiting to hear your glorious testimonies by the wrap of this second half! I am ready, you better be! Shine on, square your shoulders and get ready! Oh, Thank you sweet Jesus! …
“You are the Only One like you(2x)
I am so grateful to you Lord
You are the Only One like You!”
Nice song you should learn and sing always! *winks* It makes your heart merry and love God more!..simple yet heavily annointed. Call and ask me for the tune! Hahaha!!! Its continually on my lips! Lovely song by Eben.
At Jembel, no Pweetty Diva of ours, goes unnoticed! No way!! Check out the smile on our Diva’s face! All she needed to have had such a bright day was our killer show stopper black Moschino top! Trust me it’s a wow!
Have a look @ pix 2:
Wow! The secret is in what they represent…. Jembel! You are next! Get Pweetty!
Hey! It’s throw back Thursday and guess what? Our super fit baby, it’s still in stock! It’s got a sheer glam style and fit! Ask our Divas, spotted in the yellow and white colors! It’s super chic! The fabric is so unique and comfy with 100 percent easy fit and care!
Hallos Pweetties, happy new week! Wow! The first half of the year is almost coming to an end! Incredible isn’t it? Hahaha! Glory to God! He has been tremendously goooood!
Anyways, we thank God for the great achievements/ accomplishments, powerful testimonies, new ideas, new vision etc! I indeed had a fantastic one! Hope you did? You can increase the tempo! More await us, don’t stop hun!
Well, it’s still possible for you in the next half! Just be determined and have at the back of your mind as you go on, The Power of Synergy’! Yes, you can achieve a lot through this! Look out for people that truly believe in what you believe, and synergise! Even the scriptures declare that whatever two or more shall AGREE concerning anything, it shall be done! .. So wait no more! There are a whole lot you can do. I am excited and bubbling with great ideas this way and wishing the year wouldn’t end! Hahahaha! ….a whole lot to do!!
Truth is you can be what you want to be! Is God in it? Do you believe it’s possible? Then go for it and the ease with which things will happen will amaze you! I will share my testimonies soon! *winks* They are mind blowing that am just in awe of God’s goodness!
So can you start now? GO FOR IT! Take the vision to the Lord, synergise and take off!! SEE YOU AT THE TOP!
Hey U Pweetty, trust you had a great week! I had a fantastic one…full of testimonies, adventure, events and new mind blowing super- blessed experiences!
God has made us ‘The Blessing’ when we are in Him! (Prov 10: 22) Its a state everyone should covet! Therein is no struggle or stress… only peace , tranquility, sweetness and victories! (Eph 1 vs 3, Ps 84: 5-6 ) Seek God and dwell in Him! That is where ‘The True Blessing ” lies . Never mind, ‘In The Blessing’ too, you will sure have experiences but be in the know that you are just “passing through” the experiences which will produce for you, a far more exceeding weight of glory at the end. Whatever it is can’t drown you… Oh No! It won’t. God sees it as ” light affliction” and you should do likewise! The scriptures declare that it produces for you great positive result …”eternal weight of glory”, at the end! Hallelujah!
Go by the name God has called you,.. Blessed! YOU ARE THE BLESSED OF THE LORD! Let your life, mind and mouth be so full of God’s word concerning you and be quick to speak it at all times!
Pweetty, have you been thankful to God? If you haven’t , its time to pause and be! Yea, it should be our daily routine I tell you! Forget about everything that poses difficulty in your paths – the trials, challenges, dreams that seem unfulfilled etc. and just stay thankful! Put them aside!! God’s got you and everything in His hands so every challenge , is subject to change! Just simply remain thankful for who He is and the wonders He’s done, doing and will still do in your life and you ll be happier! He longs to hear you acknowledge Him.
So today and throughout the week, let’s be thankful for who He is; He is the Elshaddai, Elohim, Elyon, Adonai, Nissi, Rohi, Tisdeknu, Shalom, Rapha , The Monarch of the Universe, The One that just created the earth and everything with just His word, The One who alone parts the seas and creates dry ground at the same time, The power that threw the armies of Pharoah into the sea, The Power that turned Herod to worms, The Power that stilled the Sun in the valley of Ajalon, etc Ohh! Hallelujah!!! Our God is great and mighty!
Be thankful for His protection, true endless love, mercies which are new every morning, faithfulness, provision, shelter, loving kindness that never seizes! Be thankful for the great wonders He has done in your life in the past, still doing, and will yet do, the answered prayers you seem to have forgotten, for your job, family, kids, friends He has beautified your life with etc! …Ohh ! There are just a million and one reasons to JUST BE THANKFUL!
Think on these things …’whatsoever is of good report….”!
Hey Pweetty! Good day. Our Monday-Monday tonic is here again! Hahaha! Yippee!!!
How do you rest? Do you ‘really’ rest in God or…. If you do otherwise, it’s time to rest in God! (Heb 4 vs 11 – 12) Allow God in your affairs wholeheartedly so you can rest!
One day I decided to take nap for just two hours before I continued with my busy schedule. So I switched off my phones and put off every other electronic gadget that may ‘disturb ‘me. My lovely kids too, gone out so… My two hour sleep ended up being four hours! Hahaha! Seriously I never saw that coming cos I didn’t know I was that tired! But you know what? I got up so refreshed cos I ‘rested’! Hahaha!
You see that’s an example of how to rest in God. Put up some boundaries and don’t allow everything in. Be careful what you feed your mind with that may cause you stress and worry. Watch things that make you happy and don’t be caught up with someone else’s life. Successful people are too busy with their huge well laid out vision than watch and poke into other peoples’ lives.
Don’t let other peoples unhappiness and crisis affect your happiness and peace. PUT A NO DISTURB SIGN ON YOUR HEART ALWAYS! Yea,turn whatever it is over to God and enjoy the rest God gives. Keep people that are godly and happy around you so you are more effective. You have entered into the rest of God for He is on the throne. You can’t lose your peace over your life!
The disciples in the scriptures panicked sometimes and wanted to steal Jesus peace but He didn’t allow it. He kept calming them down and eventually great results, achieved! God will fight for you if you remain at rest and hold your peace. Life is too short to allow peace stealers to steal your peace and destiny.
Welcome to the month of May!!! Its already a great month for us! Yippeee! Am so excited cos our lives are progressive so…!! Glory!
Determine to have the bulldog faith this month. Don’t forget that the Just shall live by faith! Remember the things of old, God’s great works in your life and cast not away your confidence; it’s got great rewards! (Heb 10 v 35) Have a place for patience too. (Luke 18 vs 1) Patience must have its way but His word MUST prevail!
Walk by faith and not by sight. Make declarations and affirmations of who God says you are and expect nothing but the best! The glory of God covers you always. Be persistent and know that persistence wears down resistance. Yea! When you persist, u wear the devil and the circumstance out! Stay on the word. Keep up with your declarations and thank Him ahead. Entertain no sleepless nights cos HE IS IN CHARGE! U can have all you need in Him! (Luke 18 v 1 -8) All things are possible to him that believes!
Have a p-w-e-e-t-t-y week and stay thoroughly blessed! *winks*
What is your emotional bank account like? Hope it isn’t dry, low or half full? When it is low , dry or half full, you are overwhelmed, depressed, bitter, sad etc.and won’t be able to enjoy this beautiful life God has given us. Always take time to ensure you fill it up! You have the mind of Christ! Yes , He has given you a re-generated spirit that even when life throws whatever punches at you (which are sure to come at different times of your life) ,you should bounce back. Yeah!!!
How are you loving, celebrating and taking care yourself? Let your emotional bank account be full always! That way, you ll enjoy your life. Know that God is for you and nothing or no one can be against you. Remember you are your own and biggest cheer leader . Don’t always wait for circumstances to ignite your happiness or make your emotional bank account full, go on and fill it up! He took time to create and mould you, tell me why you should live a low depressed life? Its a lie from the devil! You are unique so decorate your life with positive things, excellent thoughts, and love yourself. Buy yourself flowers, don’t always wait for someone to buy for you! Take yourself out to interesting places too if you can! *winks* hahaha! Oh yeah! Its all in keeping your emotional bank account full and loving yourself!
You are beautiful! Decide and make up your mind to enjoy this life that God himself gave you! Its a beautiful life, trust me! Avoid comparing yourself with others, you are unique in your own way. They don’t have what you have e.g. your skills,abilities, stature etc. You are simply unique! Hallelujah!
Remember, Phil: 4 vs 8 says, (paraphrased)…”whatsoever things are pure, of good report and has virtue, think on those things’.. Check your thoughts and be focused. Do you have some stuff trying to frustrate you? Refuse them and step out boldly facing your day and declaring to yourself , WHO YOU ARE IN CHRIST AND GET YOUR DAY GOING THAT WAY!
Hey U, good morning! Yeah a new week again! Glory to God.
Choice is a Gift God gave us all…..Use yours wisely today and always. A man’s mind is the compass of a man! So ….’casting down imaginations that raiseth itself against the knowledge of God’… (2 Cor:3-5). Please read this story to the end: It blessed me and am sure it will be same for u:
2 twin boys were raised by an alcoholic father. 1 grew up to be an alcoholic & when asked what happened he said ” I watched my father”… The other grew up and never drank in his life. When he was asked what happened he said “I watched my father”… 2 boys, same dad, 2 different perspective. Your perspective in life will determine your destination. Today’s a new day. Go. #KirkFranklin
CHOOSE GOD’S WAYS! THEY ARE WAYS OF WISDOM AND THE BEST THAT WILL SET YOU ON THE COURSE TO FOLLOW FOR LIFE!..Not your odd imaginations, people’s suggestions and experiences,negative thoughts your mind brings to you! Refuse them and MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE ALWAYS! You will live a happier and more fulfilled life..to the full!
Dress- Purple sleeveless dress with a belt to match by Alex Marie
Shoes- Purple platform heely sandals by Office London; Nude Pointies with drapes by Steve Madden
The point here is pairing your outfits well. Have you ever thought of rocking your dress with same colour of shoes?? Yeah! Not weird at all! In fact its super glamorous so far you accessorize well!
For this purple out fit we used here for example, its a lighter shade while the shoes are darker shade of the same purple family.Yes ,you can actually rock the purple dress with the purple sandals and accessorize with other colours of clutch bags and ear rings in silver colour or champagne . If you choose the nude pointies, the pair is also perfect. Black or gold clutch /handbags, purple and silver ear rings too, ain’t out of place here as well. Then try stepping out when you are done, and YOU ARE A SHOW STOPPER! *winks*
-Black mini dress by Sharagano
-Black suede shoes by Woolworths
-Black wedge sandals by Atmosphere
With this collection, everything you need for that super chic look ; be it casual or otherwise is guaranteed! Now let’s dissect what we’ve got here.
For that gorgeous formal look, Sharagano dress will do the magic while you step those well pampered feet inside the gorgeous beauty by Woolworths! Trust me, those are quite comfy and pweetty.
For a quick transformation from formal to casual, change your black pointies to the wedges by Atmosphere and you will sure be on point. This gives you a privilege to wear one dress in two different ways. Same with Pix 1.
Whatever your style, size and colour, we ‘ve got your back at Jembel! Come on and visit http://www.jembel.com and the rest is history!!
Hello Pweetty, we are here again today on our usual Monday -Monday medicine! hahaha!
Is your life full of ‘No’? You need to change that mindset! Just one “Yes” can change things for you! No matter how difficult, narrow, cumbersome, discouraging ,overwhelming etc the situation can be, NEVER TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER! That is the mindset that wins.
Even if you have tried so many times and failed in that particular circumstance, try again. You never know, it can work out at your second, third or even fourth trial so far you are sure God has sent you to do that! Great people face challenges and your worth is measured by how much of those challenges you won! The truth is that you are made to be a winner IN ALL THINGS!
Never mind, at every point of your trial, you learn new skills, new ways of doing that same thing. Hence acquiring enough experiences and skills as you go along! Glory!!!
My two year old daughter, never takes a ”NO’ for an answer even when that particular thing or incident is for good for her! hahaha! I have learnt so much from her. She will keep saying the “No” until you agree with her terms. Remember she’s just a baby. The point here is her resilience. That’s how we should be wired! Change your mindset and always know that God is committed to us so there’s no ”chickening out” or loosing! NO WAY!!!
We are victorious in all things! Hallelujah!.. Have a pweetty week!!!
Like fashion? Yearn for quality and class! It eschews low self esteem and keeps you flying high! We do not go a step low one bit! With this top, you can rock your skirts and pants anyday!
Foto 2- Jembel’s dress
I have heard many people shy away from green! its an awesome colour!…Be it in dress, shoes , tops etc. It stands out! Have a look at the picture below:
What do you think? hehehe! I looooove it! Please take note of the combo. The red shoes etc. Always ensure you contrast your greens! it gives it more class. You have gold, black, nude pink shoes? Rock them green and you still get a wow look!
Foto 3 – Jembel’s shoes
Now every lady should and MUST have good shoes to complement her dressing! No good shoes, no great looks! Lol! Have a look below!
You see what i mean?? The shoes gave the ankara outfit a lift! Notice the class on the feet! *winks* Other colours of shoes that could go with the outfit are red, yellow, dark pink etc. ( You owe me a fee for this info) hahaha!
Hey my Pweetties, you know you can add colour to your clothes? Oh sure you can. In this era of colour blocking, dare to just try hun!
Introduce new colours to your dressing. For example, our Diva spotted above, had to bring in royal blue into her sparkling white outfit. See what it turned into! Don’t stop at blue, you can also use, yellow, green, red, purple /lilac etc. It makes your look more interesting. Try contrasting! Its awesome.
You can actually button up the white jacket, but she decided to used a brooch instead and let loose the buttons! Amazing isn’t it? It gave it another look. Wow!!!
Even the blue belt to match, added more colour! The power of accessorizing!! So you see, you need to boost your dressing; Jembel can help ALWAYS! You are Pweetty.
Here is the list of all she used (apart from the pants and ear rings);
Hey parents, Do U have a favourite (s) among ur children? Please don’t do it! It’s a killer. It sparks up strife amongst your kids, and creates unfavourable environment for the ‘less favorite’ ones to thrive especially if he /or she is aware he /she is the less favourite one! Amongst other evils it breeds are, low self esteem on that child , bitterness ,envy, early frustration in life and more so, hatred for both the other siblings that seem to be the most favoured ones and the parent(s) involved!
Trust me, you won’t want to see what that child turns into in future and even what your life and home as a parent will turn into. The Bible says, get wisdom, in all thine getting, get understanding! we need wisdom to handle our kids. Wisdom i sthe principal thing.It can be tempting i know( am a parent), but you see, we need to love our kids equally for our own good Cos most of the time, what kids turn out to be in life, depends on his /her foundation! E.g when a kids gets enough love from home, watch out for that child! There won’t be any cause for low self- esteem, frustration etc.This is so important.
Like bishop T.D. Jakes would say,(paraphrased) ”Its not what you leave for your kids eg assets after you are gone that is key , but what you leave inside them”…the love! Moreso, hey, don’t compare your child with any other! Every child is unique in his /her way.He /she MUST NOT be like child A or B: especially belittling him/her before his/her younger ones! another is our words on our kids.Don’t abuse you child please parents. use the right words on them.Words are important! Death and life are in the power of the tongue.NO, please don’t do this! By doing so, you are creating an avenue for that child to be belittled or shown little or no respect by her younger folks thereby taking for granted! This is terrible believe me! I have seen many like that.
Let’s be wise parents and treat our kids equally no matter what they do to us or the circumstances surrounding their births! Remember they didn’t force themselves to this world.We gave birth to them and owe them extravagant love and solid foundation as much as we can and leave the rest for God.It is our responsibility! God does , so how much more we? He that lacks wisdom should ask from God, the giver of all wisdom to help raise your kids the right way! We will be happier when we do and our homes peaceful. Even when we are gone, the kids will grow in unity and transfer same equal love to their next generation. Hence creating a better world! Don’t show favoritism among your kids! Its terrible…a killer!! IT IS WELL WITH US!
Hey U, how are you doing? I trust you are very great! You should really ‘cos this life you live, does not belong to you! The One who made you, the Monarch of the Universe, my Bible calls Him the Alpha and the Omega, —The One that became before time itself does and is with you! Ohh! Hallelujah!
Now I know you may have challenges weighing you down or economic situation , glaring at you and presenting to you a state of hopelessness! You know what? Don’t give up still! There’s always a way! Oh yes! That’s how Our God rolls! *winks* He won’t allow more than you can bear , come to you ok! RUN YOUR MILES WITH HIM and know that, His love is genuine!
Have this at the back of your mind today and for the rest of the week ; ponder on His words and promises also and His peace shall be yours!